closet-keys:

honestly people love the “man hating lesbian” trope but tbh a lot of lesbians (& wlw more generally) have a pretty low bar for men. like we love hozier just for writing loving songs about women with tones of affection and admiration instead of usual straight dude love songs that are mostly power/control and fetishization. like we don’t hate men arbitrarily, it’s just most men suck and we’re not afraid to say so